An information exchange system for taaruf
Start looking with intent,
within clear boundaries
Build a profile and choose exactly what to reveal, to whom,then continue through a coordinator your family trusts.
No photo required
Profiles are never public
Set up in a few minutes
How taaruf works on NikahMe
Four steps, from sending the link to the point where a coordinator takes the conversation forward.
You create the link yourself and send it only to people you choose. They see the basic layer first.
This is not a dating app
We cut what turns this into a game, and kept the structure that brings two families to the table
swiping through photos
Information that matters for a decision
Religious approach and life circumstances, before photos.
private in-app chat
Conversation through a coordinator
Through a coordinator each side trusts, with the family aware.
a feed to scroll through
A share link you create yourself
Sent only to people you choose. Set an expiry, close it any time.
Those three are the part we handle. We do not carry a marriage from start to finish. What comes after belongs to you, your family, and the coordinator you choose.
What trust here rests on
We do not vet people for you. We make where trust comes from checkable, in layers.
The link came from someone you know
A profile only reaches you through the person who sent it, so you always know its source.
Asking around, as you would anyway
The questions and conversations you would have however you met.
A verification badgeoptional
An extra layer, for cases that want a statement from a verifier who already knows the profile owner.
It is not a NikahMe verification, and it does not guarantee the profile owner's character or suitability.
Frequently asked questions
Short, direct answers that match how the system actually works. For anything else, reach us through the official channels below.
Who can see my profile?
Only people you send a link or code to directly. There is no search page and no feed suggesting anyone to anyone. Detailed fields like birthdate and province are automatically reduced to an age range and a region.
So when do we actually see each other?
You will, and at a point that makes your decision sounder. Here you get to know the other person's real self first, their religious approach, intentions, and life circumstances, before appearance can cloud the decision. Once you have seen enough and are genuinely interested, you take it forward yourself, and meeting in person happens off the platform, through a channel the family is aware of, in line with the guidance to see each other before marriage.
Read more, and help keep this running
A survey of 224 Thai Muslims
Before building anything, we asked what they wanted the start of marriage to look like, and designed from those answers.
Articles
What taaruf is, the limits of a conversation, and getting ready for marriage.
Support us
No advertising and no selling data. This runs on people giving a little.
Received a link or a profile code?
Open the basic layer right away, no account needed.
Introducing people you know?
Collect their profiles into one link and pass it to the family or elder helping them, without revealing your own account.
Would you like to help care for NikahMe’s language?
Tell the team which languages you can use. Applying does not give access to translation work automatically.
Start in your own way today
Setting up a profile takes a few minutes, and everything stays in your hands from the first word.
The principles we do not negotiate
- The profile owner stays in control
- Privacy comes first
- Guarding against fitnah